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Yahoo! My Yahoo! Mail More Yahoo! Services Account Options New User? Sign Up Sign In Help Yahoo! Search web search Home Singapore Asia Pacific World Business Entertainment Sports Technology Africa Europe Latin America Middle East North America Ex-wife: DC sniper said 'you have become my enemy' By NAFEESA SYEED,Associated Press Writer - Sunday, September 27 Send IM Story Print WASHINGTON – As the ex-wife of the notorious D.C. sniper emptied herself during a 30-day fast five years ago, one question tormented her _ why did he want to kill her? Mildred Muhammad wrote about that isolation and torment for years in her journals. She began when her ex-husband, John Allen Muhammad, took their three young children from her nearly a decade ago. She continued when he was convicted of the 2002 sniper attacks in the Washington area, and still jots down her emotions as her ex-husband awaits his scheduled Nov. 10 execution. "The paper don't talk back," the 49-year-old told The Associated Press in a recent interview. "It just lets you write down your thoughts and you're able to express anger, shame and guilt." They were all emotions that Muhammad, who is Muslim, had to purge during that 30-day fast in July 2004, just as her ex-husband's second trial was beginning. She had to understand everything she poured into the journals so she could finally move on. Those journals became the genesis for her new memoir, "Scared Silent: When the One You Love ... Becomes the One You Fear," due out Oct. 13 from Simon & Schuster imprint Strebor Books International, based in Largo, Md. In her narrative, Muhammad documents her ex-husband's dismissive retorts: "I don't mind because you don't matter," she writes. At one point, he told her: "You have become my enemy and as my enemy, I will kill you." With the book, she has emerged as a survivor who's taken her fight as an anti-domestic abuse advocate public. Even with her husband's death imminent, she still carries the protective order against him as a reminder of her freedom. Muhammad, who now lives in Prince George's County, Md., maintains she was the target when her abusive ex-husband and his teenage accomplice, Lee Boyd Malvo, killed 10 people in Maryland, Virginia and Washington. After their 12-year marriage fell apart in 2000, he secretly took the children to the Caribbean. "I have come home many times and seen her in a fetal position, not knowing where her children are," said Maisha Moses, Muhammad's older sister, who took Muhammad in at her suburban Maryland home after the children were taken. During the 18 months the children spent with their father in Antigua, Muhammad stayed in a shelter for a time and struggled financially. A Tacoma, Wash., court eventually granted her custody of the children in 2001. Muhammad said her ex-husband threatened to kill her and she lived in constant fear that he was after her, until he was caught and convicted. John Allen Muhammad was sentenced to death for shooting and killing Dean Meyers at a Manassas, Va., gas station during the three-week killing spree. Her faith anchored her, and as she cleansed herself by fasting, she was able to forgive her ex-husband, forgive herself and move forward. "I was declaring my independence," Muhammad said. "I was not going to allow him to have that kind of power over me." Muhammad played a similar role for her children. First, she painstakingly rebuilt her relationship with them after their stay with their father, fighting their sense of abandonment and the notion she didn't love them. The family tried counseling, but she said it turned out the counselors wanted to write a book about her family's high-profile case. She then got counseling books from a library, and served as her children's informal therapist. The eldest, John, is now a 19-year-old student at Louisiana Tech University. Her daughters, Salena, 17, and Taalibah, 16, attend a performing arts school where they sing opera. Muhammad now laughs at how her kids beg her to stop studying their every smile and tear. "I think overall they like that because they know I'm paying attention to them, and they feel secure and safe," she said. Muhammad speaks passionately about the nonprofit she formed last year, After the Trauma Inc. She says she wants the Maryland-based group to become a national network for domestic violence victims. Muhammad thought sharing her story would help raise awareness about the issue. She also wanted to set the record straight about her relationship with her husband. In the book, Muhammad describes how she fell for her ex-husband. Photos show him as a once-loving father, feeding his newborn son at the hospital with a bottle and playing with all three kids. However, his behavior became erratic after returning from the first Gulf War with the Army, as he grew distant and angry. "His dark mood was evolving into a permanent fixture. His old 'get up and go' was missing. He seemed to have lost interest in not just in me, but in life itself," she writes. After the couple separated in 1999, she explains how he taped her phone conversations and changed her phone number without her permission, convinced she was having an affair. When she learned he was the sniper suspect, she recalled his chilling warning: "You know I could take a small city and terrorize it and they would think it would be a group of people. But it would only be me," she writes. But Muhammad is no longer scared, her sister said. Moses, who's in her early 50s, said her sister has "become whole again." "Sometimes, I just sit back and admire her as a baby sister. I get strength from her," she said. "It's like she has this thirst and hunger to help anyone." Muhammad has moved on: She remarried two years ago and plans to study criminal justice. She plans to be at home with her children when he is put to death, much like the time she sat told them about his death sentence. "We deal with everything in truth and honesty, and we deal with our emotions as they come, and we depend on each other and we are here for each other," she said. "We deal with what is, instead of what we would like it to be or what we want it to be." ___ On the Net: Strebor Books International: http://www.streborbooks.com/ Mildred Muhammad: http://www.mildredmuhammad.com/default.html After The Trauma Inc.: http://www.afterthetrauma.org/ Recommend Send IM Story Print Related Articles GOP: Dems ignoring public's health care concerns AP - Sunday, September 27 Merkel, Steinmeier in final push for German votes Reuters - Sunday, September 27 General McChrystal submits plea for more Afghanistan troops Reuters - Sunday, September 27 Pope decries Czech communist-era persecution AP - Sunday, September 27 Terror threats prompt flight ban over Oktoberfest AP - Sunday, September 27 News Search Top Stories BBVA sells 1 bln dlrs of property to Deutsche Bank Kasparov beats Karpov in chess legends' rematch Swine flu vaccines win approval US durable goods orders slip in August French banks sue for billions over Lehman collapse More Top Stories » ADVERTISEMENT Most Popular Most Viewed Most Recommended New Confucius family tree hits two million Kasparov beats Karpov in chess legends' rematch French banks sue for billions over Lehman collapse Water detected on the Moon Unilever to buy Sara Lee personal care brands More Most Viewed » Ozone hole smaller in 2009 than 2008: WMO Nanoparticles could pose threat to humans: scientists Remains of Jesus-era synagogue found in Israel Implanted tooth helps blind US woman recover sight More Most Recommended » Elsewhere on Yahoo! 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